How To Prepare For Your Family Session
So, you’ve booked in for a family session (or are considering doing so!) and you’re wondering… what do you need to do to prepare for it?
Don’t stress, I’m here to assist you in making the experience a wonderful one.
Have A Consultation With Your Family Photographer!
This one sounds simple, but it’s so important in ensuring your session flows as easily as possible. Personally, I love to see inspiration images from my families too, so if there’s anything you’ve seen online/from a photographer’s portfolio, do ask if it’s okay to send it over. During the consultation you should discuss the ideal time to start the session (base this around ensuring kids are fed + well slept if they’re young enough to still nap!), and how long the session should take (around 1.5 - 2 hours).
I have experience with over 40 families, so I can answer any other questions on our call with trust.
Prepare Outfits
When it comes to what everyone wears, the most important thing is that it feels like you. Some toddlers have very strong opinions about what they want to wear and honestly, letting them choose something that feels like “them” often makes for the happiest photos. The aim is for your family to look like themselves, not like a styled shoot.
That said, if you’d like a little guidance on what tends to work well photographically, soft creams, greys, and neutrals always look timeless. Adding a subtle thread of connection through everyone’s outfits, without being too matchy matchy, can tie the images together beautifully. For example, see the image below of Sara, Hamish, and their kids all in white tops and jeans; it feels coordinated but still relaxed.
Think of outfits as a way to reflect your personalities while still creating a gentle sense of cohesion in your photos.
Consider An Activity / Manage Expectations
If your little one is shy or a bit nervous, having something familiar can make a big difference! If we are doing an on-location/outdoors session, bring along a favorite board game, a beloved book to read together, or embrace the magic of make-believe. I also have a few tried-and-true prompts to bring out those genuine belly laughs, but having something personal to engage with always helps.
It’s also important to set realistic expectations. Having a camera pointed at you can feel a little strange, especially for children. While I have over 12 years of experience helping families feel at ease, I’m still a new face to your little one. If they’re not feeling it, that’s okay… forcing smiles or repeatedly asking them to “behave” can actually make things more stressful. Instead, let their personalities shine, however that looks for them! Whether it’s big giggles, quiet snuggles into your shoulder, or a little bit of both, the best photos come when children feel comfortable and supported. After all, they just want your approval and giving them the space to be themselves is the best gift you can give.
Send Across Example Images
As mentioned above, I LOVE seeing my client’s vision so I can ensure to have everything prepared for the session (or communicate what may not be possible!). You can use Instagram or Pinterest and just screenshot images you love :)
Think About How You’ll Showcase Images
I adore seeing client’s memories in print and I work with 2-3 incredibly high quality and UK based suppliers to offer a range of products, from canvases, to frames, to fine art albums. Many of my clients order a 30x30” collage frame which includes 9 images. I’m here to help with any recommendations or offer advice!
Hope that eases those worries! Is there a question I haven’t yet answered? Please do post in the comment section below.
If you’re looking for a family photographer I offer a free no-obligation consultation call to better explain how I work and what the benefits are of booking with me. Contact me here.
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